the ultimate and perfect relationship is something that most of us dream of. So many of us yearn to be that perfect woman, that every man will fall in love with, and constantly visualize that fairytale romance and the rest of our life with our perfect soul mate.

Why then doesn't it always happen that way with so many of us wondering how we find the right man, why do we always end up in a failing relationship or why doesn't he call.

Relationships are so frustrating leaving us stressed, distraught and confused, never quite knowing what we have done wrong and wondering what he see in her rather than us.

You see those women who always have their man, have great relationships and can have the pick of the crop. Their relationships are always perfect, full of excitement with great men and the ideal life. Why do some women have such a perfect relationship and a perfect life when others have to suffer relationships that are dull, unfulfilling, boring or even non existent? Don't you just wish you could really understand men?

Don't despair, did you know that as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, you have the power at you finger tips to make men fall in love with you, make men want to spend the rest of their lives with you, influence the way they think and persuade them to give you want your heart desires.

If you find it difficult to attract the right man, sustain a relationship, keep the interest of your partner or persuade the love of your life to get down on one knee don't despair, all women have the power to get their man by learning how to be their selves and focusing on their individuality.